Saturday, February 4, 2012

Sexy or Stunning? Which would you rather be?

Once upon a time it was a compliment when someone called me sexy.  I would have been flattered to be called 'seductive'.  But things have changed.  I have come to understand I have greater value.

I don't want to be called 'sexy'.  Sexy means that I am a piece of meat, that I am an object.  That all I am good for is my body and what I can do with it.  It is ugly and it is dirty.

Instead, I want to be 'stunning'.  I want to be beautiful.  I want to be head turning.  Being stunning means that both my inner beauty and my outer beauty in combination is what is attractive.  It means that my inner light is shining and catching their attention.

Dear men of the world.  We don't want to be sexy, we want to be stunning.  If we are only sexy to you, then leave us alone and move on.

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